A Malaysian woman, who is 108 years old, made headlines in 2006 when she married a man 70 years younger than her. The couple say they are in love and live happily together.
(The couple say they are in love and live happily together)
CoRReCTioN "the husband say he is in love with her money and live happily dreaming and planning what will he do with that money after her death" :P :D
(What can I say....love is blind!)
yea.. and i think Alicia Keys sang on behalf of the old woman's husband :D :
"Well people don't see what I see Even when them right there Standing next to me And all of my friends think I'm crazy for loving you But they don't know There's nothing else I can do
And it's too bad cause love is blind
See people don't know what I know They say I'm losing my mind I know I'm losing control
All of my friends think I'm crazy but I don't care I'm over the edge, no turning back Belong to you I swear
Walah nowadays it became a common thing that men are getting maried to women who are elder than them but "70 years younger than her":S.I never heard about it before.She is like his grandmother:S.
It is true that love sometimes forces us to do what we never thought and expected, but in such situations mind should be used. Following our heart and emotions sometimes makes us take wrong decisions and fall in mistakes.It is true that sometimes our heart seize our mind ,especially when it is about love, but mind has to be used.
sometimes we find ourselves that we are forced to take a painful decision, but it is better than the subsequent remorse.
Love is not blind, in this case, it's stupid. I find it really a stupid thing to do. 70 years younger? Seriously? I don't think this has to do anythinG with lOvE.
Forgive me my friends I appropriate the man in the picture U know why cuz he proved that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty .Current guys search for the doll faces only nowadays , because media conveys hidden messages to them about the importance of outer look.
I can't underestimates the importance of outer look but man over exaggerates about the beauty.This is the stereotype about man .BUT I CAN'T GENERALIZE.
I wanna guy like him who doesn't overestimate outer look.Who appreciates my intelligence, my self confidence and enhance this concept.
lovely mshay5adwani.. there's no need to Alas us..
i agree with all what u've said BUT think about it.. she's older than his mother, she's a grandma, if she's older than him by 10 or 15 years there's a chance (little chance) to say he loved her .. he cared about her inner beauty or find any other excuse.
when u see a man in ur father's age or older u directly call him (uncle) why? cuz this is our nature.. we can't look at older people the same why we look at our peers, we can't consider them as husbands this is for normal people..
while people who lived a tough life lacking tenderness and care look for older people searching for what they hadn't had.. thinking they love them but in fact love is something different than a need, unfortunately they usually find that when it's too late.
another thing is.. she is old.. i mean tooooooooooooo old.. and she's not an old adolescent woman (like actresses and the cosmetics surgeries they do to look younger) to excuse that man for marring her !! :S
he's young and she's old.. there's no equivalence.. can she satisfy his needs?? NO of course.. then why he married her? we answered that obove..
in addition i believe in non verbal communication (body language) which never lies..
that guy is hidding some thing no way he loves her because he is not happy the way that woman is, just compare their smile.
she's smiling with an opened mouth while he is smiling just with his lips.. (fake smile)
he's smile called polite fake smile.. closed mouth and he doesn't have the eye corner wrinkles and muscles's face smile expressions, well.. that's not a smile :S
let's go to the arms.. his arms are semi crossed.. that defensive position is taken unconsciously when u sense a threat so u try to protect ur heart and lungs.. that means he has something to hid.. and he's closed person and not honest
(poor guy nothing left to be read by bumble_beee) :P
we are logical here.. Guys r rational not emotional to run after emotions.. even when their heart loves their mind loves too :)
Dear sister Mashay5 I understood what you wanted to convey . You used this married couple as an example to prove that "the outer beauty shouldn't overcome the inner beauty". Our real source of happiness is our inner beauty".The sincere person is the who touches and explores your inner essence, not your outer beauty that may underestimate your prestige and inner beauty:).Very touchiing and sincere words dear Shayo5a.As usual I do respet your view:)
Dear sister bumble_bee what can I say about your conclusion and analysis.Mashallah very sensible and convinced.Sometimes mind has to be used in order to avoid mistakes and remorse:).Your psychological view is a convinced view "body sometimes refelcts our inner feelings and thoughts":)
Well if you want an honest answer from a man, then here it is:
For men, outer beauty is important (I can't deny that) and that's the first thing that attracts us to women, so yes we do care about looks, BUT it is not as important as inner beauty.
So we like it when women take care of themselves and having a beautiful woman is definitely a plus, but inner beauty is the deciding factor. What's the point of having a physically attractive person when there's nothing to admire from the inside?
So to sum up, YES beauty IS important for men BUT it is not THE most important factor.
Sorry guys for my interruption but I liked this topic and I would like to pass my comment with my respect to your views of course
Well when see something beautiful and attractive (not necessarily humans) we randomly find ourselves attracted to this thing. It is a natural thing when we find ourselves admiring the beauty of something and when we find ourselves attracted to its beauty. This thing is related to our inner feeling which is out of our control. It is not in our hand to decide whether we should be attracted to this beautiful thing or not.In some situations emotions seize our minds and force us to do what when never expected.Something inside us makes us feel attracted to beauty. Sincerely speaking I don't blame a man if he found himself attracted and admiring the beauty of a beautiful lady(without crossing his limit of course ).This thing is related to his inner instinct which Allah bestowed him as man. In some situations this inner instinct seizes his mind and forces him to do what is not expected. His inner instinct becomes his weakness. We women sometimes when we see an handsome guy we randomly see ourselves attracted to his beauty, so why man can't be attracted (Without crossing his limit of course)!.But as Mr. Farran said the outer beauty shouldn't be the main concern. The outer beauty shouldn't overcome the real source of happiness (the inner beauty). People shouldn't be judged according to their outer beauty.Our outer beauty can't decide WHO WE ARE.The outer beauty shouldn't deceive our minds and sensibility.Many men got married to extreme beautiful lady because of their outer beauty ignoring their inner source. what happened after that (regret, sense of losing, disappointment, betrayal…etc.)
Realation are the most beautiful gifts that Allah bestowed us . We should not ruin thei r rdeep meanings through paying attention to less important and marginalized things.Realtions can be maintained with our love, respect, understanding, asensibilitynd trust that we carry for each other.
What a great feeling when you pay attention to your outer beauty, but what a disappointed feeling when you overestimate this outer beauty
Sorry for the interruption once again. Accept my Alas!
Thanks Dr. Mohammad:). You always understand and support my points and thoughts.I really appreciate your kind words it means alot wallah. Can't say other than THANKS:).
A Malaysian woman, who is 108 years old, made headlines in 2006 when she married a man 70 years younger than her. The couple say they are in love and live happily together.
oh my god
ReplyDeleteshe get married a man 70 years younger than her
that's too strange :o
Very strange indeed! But love knows no age :D
ReplyDeletei bet she's rich or have some kind of assets
ReplyDelete(The couple say they are in love and live happily together)
CoRReCTioN "the husband say he is in love with her money and live happily dreaming and planning what will he do with that money after her death" :P :D
(What can I say....love is blind!)
yea.. and i think Alicia Keys sang on behalf of the old woman's husband :D :
"Well people don't see what I see
Even when them right there
Standing next to me
And all of my friends think I'm crazy for loving you
But they don't know
There's nothing else I can do
And it's too bad cause love is blind
See people don't know what I know
They say I'm losing my mind
I know I'm losing control
All of my friends think I'm crazy but I don't care
I'm over the edge, no turning back
Belong to you I swear
It's too bad 'cause love is blind"
Walah nowadays it became a common thing that men are getting maried to women who are elder than them but "70 years younger than her":S.I never heard about it before.She is like his grandmother:S.
ReplyDeleteIt is true that love sometimes forces us to do what we never thought and expected, but in such situations mind should be used. Following our heart and emotions sometimes makes us take wrong decisions and fall in mistakes.It is true that sometimes our heart seize our mind ,especially when it is about love, but mind has to be used.
sometimes we find ourselves that we are forced to take a painful decision, but it is better than the subsequent remorse.
Love is not blind, in this case, it's stupid. I find it really a stupid thing to do. 70 years younger? Seriously? I don't think this has to do anythinG with lOvE.
ReplyDeleteSorry for sayinG stupiD but seriously there's a thin line between love and stupidity; i think, in this case, it's the latter.
ReplyDeleteForgive me my friends I appropriate the man in the picture U know why cuz he proved that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty .Current guys search for the doll faces only nowadays , because media conveys hidden messages to them about the importance of outer look.
ReplyDeleteI can't underestimates the importance of outer look but man over exaggerates about the beauty.This is the stereotype about man .BUT I CAN'T GENERALIZE.
I wanna guy like him who doesn't overestimate outer look.Who appreciates my intelligence, my self confidence and enhance this concept.
Alas all of you guyz .......
lovely mshay5adwani.. there's no need to Alas us..
ReplyDeletei agree with all what u've said BUT think about it.. she's older than his mother, she's a grandma, if she's older than him by 10 or 15 years there's a chance (little chance) to say he loved her .. he cared about her inner beauty or find any other excuse.
when u see a man in ur father's age or older u directly call him (uncle) why? cuz this is our nature.. we can't look at older people the same why we look at our peers, we can't consider them as husbands this is for normal people..
while people who lived a tough life lacking tenderness and care look for older people searching for what they hadn't had.. thinking they love them but in fact love is something different than a need, unfortunately they usually find that when it's too late.
another thing is.. she is old.. i mean tooooooooooooo old.. and she's not an old adolescent woman (like actresses and the cosmetics surgeries they do to look younger) to excuse that man for marring her !! :S
he's young and she's old.. there's no equivalence.. can she satisfy his needs?? NO of course.. then why he married her? we answered that obove..
in addition i believe in non verbal communication (body language) which never lies..
that guy is hidding some thing no way he loves her because he is not happy the way that woman is, just compare their smile.
she's smiling with an opened mouth while he is smiling just with his lips.. (fake smile)
he's smile called polite fake smile.. closed mouth and he doesn't have the eye corner wrinkles and muscles's face smile expressions, well.. that's not a smile :S
let's go to the arms.. his arms are semi crossed.. that defensive position is taken unconsciously when u sense a threat so u try to protect ur heart and lungs.. that means he has something to hid.. and he's closed person and not honest
(poor guy nothing left to be read by bumble_beee) :P
we are logical here.. Guys r rational not emotional to run after emotions.. even when their heart loves their mind loves too :)
Dear sister Mashay5 I understood what you wanted to convey . You used this married couple as an example to prove that "the outer beauty shouldn't overcome the inner beauty". Our real source of happiness is our inner beauty".The sincere person is the who touches and explores your inner essence, not your outer beauty that may underestimate your prestige and inner beauty:).Very touchiing and sincere words dear Shayo5a.As usual I do respet your view:)
ReplyDeleteDear sister bumble_bee what can I say about your conclusion and analysis.Mashallah very sensible and convinced.Sometimes mind has to be used in order to avoid mistakes and remorse:).Your psychological view is a convinced view "body sometimes refelcts our inner feelings and thoughts":)
Very interesting and diverse points of view. You all have a point.
ReplyDeletebumble_beeee MY dear sister I said alas about the current guys who overestimates outer look .All of U my best friend .
ReplyDeleteThank U ......
then i Agreeee with u, not just one Alas.. MIllioN :D :$
ReplyDeleteMr.Farran , If U don't mind can I ask U a Q as a man.What is more important inner beauty or outer beauty.
ReplyDeletePLZ avoid the consumed answer about the Q above. I want U to be frank :) .
Well if you want an honest answer from a man, then here it is:
ReplyDeleteFor men, outer beauty is important (I can't deny that) and that's the first thing that attracts us to women, so yes we do care about looks, BUT it is not as important as inner beauty.
So we like it when women take care of themselves and having a beautiful woman is definitely a plus, but inner beauty is the deciding factor. What's the point of having a physically attractive person when there's nothing to admire from the inside?
So to sum up, YES beauty IS important for men BUT it is not THE most important factor.
Did that answer your question?
Well thank U Mr.Farran for answering my Q.
ReplyDelete" Did that answer your question?"
Yes, sure cuz in the logic of man beauty is very important.
Sorry guys for my interruption but I liked this topic and I would like to pass my comment with my respect to your views of course
ReplyDeleteWell when see something beautiful and attractive (not necessarily humans) we randomly find ourselves attracted to this thing. It is a natural thing when we find ourselves admiring the beauty of something and when we find ourselves attracted to its beauty. This thing is related to our inner feeling which is out of our control. It is not in our hand to decide whether we should be attracted to this beautiful thing or not.In some situations emotions seize our minds and force us to do what when never expected.Something inside us makes us feel attracted to beauty. Sincerely speaking I don't blame a man if he found himself attracted and admiring the beauty of a beautiful lady(without crossing his limit of course ).This thing is related to his inner instinct which Allah bestowed him as man. In some situations this inner instinct seizes his mind and forces him to do what is not expected. His inner instinct becomes his weakness. We women sometimes when we see an handsome guy we randomly see ourselves attracted to his beauty, so why man can't be attracted (Without crossing his limit of course)!.But as Mr. Farran said the outer beauty shouldn't be the main concern. The outer beauty shouldn't overcome the real source of happiness (the inner beauty). People shouldn't be judged according to their outer beauty.Our outer beauty can't decide WHO WE ARE.The outer beauty shouldn't deceive our minds and sensibility.Many men got married to extreme beautiful lady because of their outer beauty ignoring their inner source. what happened after that (regret, sense of losing, disappointment, betrayal…etc.)
Realation are the most beautiful gifts that Allah bestowed us . We should not ruin thei r rdeep meanings through paying attention to less important and marginalized things.Realtions can be maintained with our love, respect, understanding, asensibilitynd trust that we carry for each other.
What a great feeling when you pay attention to your outer beauty, but what a disappointed feeling when you overestimate this outer beauty
Sorry for the interruption once again. Accept my Alas!
Well when see -when we see
ReplyDeleteextreme beautiful lady- extremely
asensibilitynd trust - sensibility and trust
WoW what can I say? That was sensational! You summed it up beautifully Miss Laila. Everything you said was spot on! Keep it coming :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Dr. Mohammad:). You always understand and support my points and thoughts.I really appreciate your kind words it means alot wallah. Can't say other than THANKS:).
ReplyDeleteActually I worte what I do believe in;)
Your belief is beautiful :) Keep it coming :D
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